How to be a good dominant mistress in Madrid?
Dominance play is attracting more and more followers. If you fancy offering a more special kind of service, we’ll show you how to be a good dominant mistress in Madrid. Let them know who’s in charge!
The sado mistress, a figure of power
Wondering how to be a good sado mistress? The first thing you need to know is exactly what this concept means, where it comes from and what a mistress actually does. That way you’ll have a much clearer idea of the role you’ll need to play, and you can decide whether you’re still interested in becoming one.
The concept of the sado mistress comes from the world of BDSM. That is, a sexual realm in which Bondage, Dominance, Submission, Sadism and Masochism are practised. The core principle of BDSM is the establishment of roles, where one partner commands and the other submits to their orders. And from that foundation, its different variants unfold.
Sadism is a term that originates with the Marquis de Sade. An eighteenth-century French writer who imbued his works with a cruel eroticism and depicted every kind of dominant sex. Although in those works it was always the man who imposed himself on the woman, and generally without any prior agreement.
The figure of the dominant mistress in Madrid embodies power. Part of knowing how to be a good sado mistress lies in your own personality. Do you consider yourself authoritative and strong-willed? Are you a woman who takes no prisoners? Do you relish being in command and giving orders? If your answer to all of that has been yes, the role of the sado mistress will almost certainly fit you like a glove.
Sometimes you’ll find the term dominant mistress Madrid written as dominatrix, domme, trix or even as femdom and mistress. Although in general all of these names refer to a woman who takes command, some carry certain nuances. For example, mistress is a higher title than dominatrix: whoever holds it has more experience. And femdom holds that a woman has an inherent right to command a man.
What does a dominant mistress in Madrid do?
As we said, at heart the sado mistress has to be dominant. So in short, the dominant mistress in Madrid is dedicated to giving orders to her slave or slaves. That said, BDSM has its subtleties.
Sadism and masochism have come a long way. Every effort is now made to avoid practising BDSM in the kind of aberrant way the Marquis de Sade described. In fact, devotees of this world are scandalised by how sadomasochism is portrayed in that author’s books. For some time now, everything in BDSM is consensual.
To carry out any kind of BDSM practice, both parties have to be in agreement. In the twenty-first century, thankfully, we have turned this “painful eroticism” into something far more civilised than it once was.
So the first thing you need to bear in mind when asking yourself what a mistress does is to establish a mutual agreement with your submissive client. Talk beforehand about how far he is willing to go and how far you are willing to go. It has to be an agreed-upon punishment. You can discuss what kind of orders he wants to receive, what kind of physical chastisement, which toys you’re going to use…
You may have seen the film ‘Fifty Shades of Grey’. That hugely influential film showed how its protagonist handed a “contract” to the girl he was going to dominate, Anastasia Steele. This approach actually already appeared in the book that gave masochism its name: ‘Venus in Furs’ by Leopold von Sacher-Masoch.
If you’re going to throw yourself into becoming the dominant mistress in Madrid, it will serve you well to set out a list or contract with your client covering the list of tasks.
The safe word: safety comes first
When you become a dominant mistress escort in Madrid, your safety and the client’s come first (along with the pleasure, of course). Choosing a safety word or safe word is essential.
It is a precautionary word for when you’re in the thick of it. If one of you is having a hard time, isn’t comfortable or has any kind of problem during the sadomasochism session, all it takes is to say the agreed safe word. The moment either of you utters it, everything must stop immediately.
Sometimes a safety gesture is agreed instead of a safe word. That way, if the mouth is otherwise occupied, there won’t be a problem.
The most common safe words are colours. They’re easy to remember in any situation and easy to say. What’s more, you don’t run the risk of confusing the word with some sexual act. We recommend you choose red or yellow, for example.
As for gestures, it will depend on which parts of the body remain free to move. It’s very common to choose shaking the head, or to agree on X number of blinks if the client’s immobilisation is almost total.
At Cleopatra Escorts, you can be a dominant mistress in Madrid
After reading this, if you’re still convinced you could be the perfect sado mistress, you’ll want to know how to be a good sado mistress in Madrid.
To work as a dominant mistress in Madrid, it’s preferable that you join an escort agency. Especially if you’re new to this world. An agency will look after your protection and your client book as well. In other words, you’ll fill your pocket with notes, but with the reassurance of being safeguarded.
Cleopatra Escorts is the best option you’ll find in the capital. Our agency has many years of experience in the sector, and proof of that are the glowing reviews from the girls who work or have worked with us.
At our agency, we have dedicated a specific section to every woman who wishes to work as a dominant mistress in Madrid.
Cleopatra’s secret for a dominant mistress in Madrid
Many of the men who come to our agency are looking for a BDSM experience. That’s why we’ve specialised in this field as well and created a unique space in our relaxation chalet.
You’ll find a dungeon fully equipped that will be the delight of any self-respecting submissive. There you’ll be able to give free rein to your role as sado mistress with the wealth of elements you’ll find.
Take the step and become the sado mistress you’ve always wanted to be. Get in touch here and we’ll tell you how!
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